Flow removes the policing, not the work

The work is not what drains us. Holding ourselves to the work is. And the honest catch: a long good session still leaves us flattened, so the two costs may share one tank after all. What’s worth removing is the re-deciding, not the difficulty.

What it says

Hard work isn’t the part that empties you.

Some mornings the hours pass and we barely notice.

Other mornings we’re at the fridge every ten minutes.

Same head, same task, and only one fights itself.

But the good hours leave us wrecked too, so maybe it’s all one tank.

What we can cut is everything that makes us decide again.


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