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Voss tactics work once — relationships aren't once

Voss tactics work once — relationships aren’t once

The emotional read wins the room. It was built to win it once. Run it weekly on the same person and the wins start...
Vairāgya — Decoded

Vairāgya — Decoded

Vairāgya gets translated as dispassion, non-attachment, and indifference. Those are three different instructions. The sutra's own word is vaśīkāra — mastery. You build that....
Śraddhā is not belief — Gītā 17.3

Śraddhā is not belief — Gītā 17.3

You didn't choose that — your hand was already moving. The Gītā's word for that leaning is śraddhā: not a belief you sign up...
Gita 6.5 — Friend or Enemy of Yourself

Gita 6.5 — Friend or Enemy of Yourself

The Gita says you are your own best friend. Same verse says you're your own worst enemy. It never tells you which one shows...
Santoṣa and the comparison trap

Santoṣa and the comparison trap

Santoṣa gets translated as contentment, which sounds like lowering the bar. Bhagavad Gītā 3.17: for the one content in the Self alone, there is...
Muditā — the word for gladness at someone else's luck

Muditā — the word for gladness at someone else’s luck

Muditā is gladness at someone else's good fortune — the fourth thing the comparison trap takes from you. Yoga Sūtras 1.33 lists it as...
The Five Kleśas — Yoga Sūtras 2.3

The Five Kleśas — Yoga Sūtras 2.3

Patañjali named five things that cling to the mind. He never claimed naming them was the cure. Decoded: the real definition, before the convenient...

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The Emotion Machine

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Marvin Minsky's "The Emotion Machine" argue that the mind, unlike physics, cannot be explained by a few simple laws because it is composed of hundreds of interconnected, specialized parts or "resources." This theory posits that complex mental states like emotion, consciousness, and self-awareness are not single entities but rather "suitcase words" for the interactions and competition among these resources, often involving switching them on or off or affecting their priority. The text explores how attachments to "Imprimers" (attached persons) are crucial for developing higher-level goals and values through feelings like pride and shame. Furthermore, Minsky contrasts this complex, multi-layered view with the illusion of a single, unified "Self" and proposes that thinking involves hierarchical processing and using different models to reflect on and solve problems, suggesting that even processes like suffering result from cascades of mental disruption.
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The Kybalion

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We move through our lives on a constant search for something more. We search for the arcane truths, the “Master-Key” spoken of by the sages, to unlock the inner doors in the Temple of Mystery. What if one of the most powerful keys was forged thousands of years ago, when the present race of men was in its infancy, and preserved in a mysterious, century-old book?
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The Power of Habit

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We’ve all been there. The New Year’s resolution to exercise every day that fizzles out by February. The vow to start a new productive routine that never quite gets off the ground. We often blame ourselves for a lack of willpower or discipline, but what if the problem isn't us, but our understanding of how habits work?